7 Reasons We Hurt the Ones We Love

Have you ever shouted at your parents, and then immediately regret it? Or perhaps you lied to your partner’s face or ignored their calls? Dr. Deborah South Richardson, a psychology professor at Georgia Regents University has stated, “The people who are likely to cause us harm of any sort are likely going to be people we know.” Hurting the ones that are closer to us is something that happens naturally for many different reasons. See if you can relate to any of these reasons!

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References:
Almendrala, A. (2014, June 26). The scientific reason why we hurt the ones we love most. Retrieved April 08, 2021, from https://www.huffpost.com/entry/aggression-research_n_5532142
Feuerman, M. (2020, March 02). Coping with an insecure attachment style. Retrieved April 08, 2021, from https://www.verywellmind.com/marriage-insecure-attachment-style-2303303#:~:text=If%20a%20person%20develops%20an,others%20in%20times%20of%20need.
Jacobson, S. (2019, October 11). 12 signs you Lack healthy boundaries (and why you need them). Retrieved April 08, 2021, from https://www.harleytherapy.co.uk/counselling/healthy-boundaries.htm
Pantazi, J. (2019, September 29). 8 reasons why we hurt the ones we love the most. Retrieved April 08, 2021, from https://www.youniversetherapy.com/post/8-reasons-why-we-hurt-the-ones-we-love-the-most
Weiss, R. (2017, October 25). 4 signs you need to rethink your boundaries. Retrieved April 08, 2021, from https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/do-you-have-healthy-boundaries
Wolff, C. (2017, December 01). 9 signs your Relationship expectations may be too high. Retrieved April 08, 2021, from https://www.bustle.com/p/9-signs-your-relationship-expectations-may-be-too-high-6746810

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