6 Red Flags You Shouldn’t Ignore in Yourself

We all look out for red flags. Whether it be in a romantic relationship, friendship, or with your family. Toxic behavior is everywhere.

Red flags in a relationship can be signs of narcissism, aggression, victimization, manipulative behavior or even abusive behavior. Whereas in family dynamics, sometimes it might be subtle or even more problematic over time.

Cultivating self-awareness around red flags and toxic behavior can help us avoid them altogether.
Watch this video and learn how to identify red flags in yourself and the relationships around you.

Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Editor: Isadora Ho
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice Over: Amanda Silvera (http://www.youtube.com/amandasilvera )
Animator: Sarimopi ( https://www.instagram.com/sarimopi/ )
Youtube Manager: Cindy Cheong

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