The Only Two Questions to Repair a Relationship

How can we prevent damage in our relationships? To start with we can regularly ask our partners two ostensibly simple yet hugely central and effective questions…
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“Relationships get damaged; every day brings with it small challenges – disappointments, frustrations, and irritations – that can come between even the most committed lovers and subtly wear away at the sincerity of their connection.

To prevent the risks, lovers should regularly make room to ask themselves – in a calm spirit of gentle openness and curiosity – two ostensibly simple yet hugely central and effective questions:

What are you angry with me about?

How have I scared you recently?”


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Gemma Green-Hope

Title animation produced in collaboration with

Graeme Probert

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